17 of 40 – Light bulb…

Or an "ah ha" moment. Or an epiphany (we've had plenty of each on this blog).  Either way, this morning's Morning Pages coupled with some questions from Terri Cole's Love Revolution series (specifically the Secondary Gain work sheet)...   helped me to identify some key behaviors I need to stop doing. Yes, there was some "why" …

Is It Me…?

Them: "Ohhh, it hurts when I do this." Me: "Stop doing that." Them: "But I can't because (insert excuse / justification / reason here) ....a little while later Them: "Oh my GOD, it so hurts when I do this." Me: "Well, maybe you should find another way to do it." Them: "But I can't because …

Damn

Have you ever been in situation where you felt as if you just couldn't catch a break?  It's even worse when you know you had a hand in creating the seemingly bad luck.  If my life over the last 40 years were a play, it'd be a Shakespearean tragedy.  Just when you think I'm poised …