The Year I Become the Woman Your Mother Warned You About

You see that logo there?  The one in the blog background.  Back in 2008 when I was just embarking on my self-publishing journey, a web designer (who ran off with over $300 of my hard-earned dollars) came up with the idea of naming  my web site after the book I was publishing. I bought "Satin … Continue reading The Year I Become the Woman Your Mother Warned You About

No buts, no bullshit.

Awhile back I posted a question in my FB status that asked something like, "What is the one thing you want / accomplishment you'd like to make that when reached or obtained, it would fill you with joy?"  I may have gotten one response and it wasn't an answer to the question. Come to think … Continue reading No buts, no bullshit.

Who Am I Really?

Hi.  My name is…and here’s where I get nervous.  You see, my early childhood was marked by a fairy tale beginning – you know the kind where the poor heroine is outcast, left alone in the world with no one to care for her.  At least that’s how it felt.  Truth was, my parents separated … Continue reading Who Am I Really?

Now that I’ve calmed down…

Purpose: (noun) The reason for which something is done or created or for which something exists; a person’s sense of resolve or determination; (verb) Have as one’s intention or objective. So, with that in mind, you know how I wigged out in my last post? Yes, well, mid-way through my “moment” my Divinity tapped me … Continue reading Now that I’ve calmed down…


You've read about my work with The Desire Map process by Danielle LaPorte.  Hopefully you've clicked the buttons there on the right and read more about it, maybe even are trying it yourself.  I'm hosting a Desire Map Book Club as well so if you're even remotely curious, your chance to find out what's what … Continue reading Dreamin’

This Just In…Bringing Desire to the Masses

Guess what I'm going to be doing next year?  I'm part of an international team of book club leaders that will bring the art of Desire Mapping to the world!  I am so freakin' excited! For information on what the heck I'm talking about, click here. To get information about The Desire Map process, click … Continue reading This Just In…Bringing Desire to the Masses

Bass Ackwards, the remix

I'm an independent author with four books to my credit.  The experts keep telling me to have a platform, accounts on all the social media and a blog that has a "theme" and provides readers with information.  Um, yeah.  About that.  I blog because I need an outlet for the voices in my head.  If … Continue reading Bass Ackwards, the remix

What does the word “Aroused” do for you?

It's one of my Core  Desired Feelings and now, it's at the core of how and why I write.  Check out today's blog post for more on this word and read an excerpt from my collection of erotic short stories.  Warning, the excerpt is rated NC-17 so read at your own risk.Have a wonderful weekend … Continue reading What does the word “Aroused” do for you?

I want to feel connected…

So hop on over and read the latest blog :-).  You'll finally get to see what I REALLY look like, lol. Hugs! Dana

It’s about making room for my Muse to do His thing…

Part of healing involves getting passed your past. I didn't do a Father's Day post because my dad was a ghost of sorts.  My ex-husband, while a large part of my daughter's life now wasn't exactly present while we were married.  I didn't have strong, father figures in my childhood, so no tributes on my … Continue reading It’s about making room for my Muse to do His thing…